how to know if someone is in love with you...

...if you're in Columbia
it's absolutely great the way they do it...you always know where you stand

let's take two characters for the demostration, A and B. gender does not matter. the first thing A needs to do if he/she loves B is write the person an sms. saying pretty much nothing, like "i was just wondering how yo were", "i wish you a nice day"...
if B does not reply instantly, he is very rude. then, it's his/her turn. let's say, the next day B needs to write a similar sms to A
from this point, everything is absolutely clear, and they will hook up on the next occasion...
if B never writes the second message, there is no possibility of love.


another method:
A and B are in the same group of friends/ acquaintances.
A loves B, but does not know if B feels the same. when the group meets, A needs to greet B before greeting the others; also, as the habit of kissing cheeks is rather common, A will need to kiss B first. even if B is the last to enter.

when they sit down at a table in a bar, let's say, A will inquire on the conditions that B is in. i mean thinks like : "are you comfortable, B" or "isn't your chair too close to the window, B. it's rather cold" (yeah as if it was ever cold in Columbia)
and A also might pass something to B, like "do you want the water, B?" even if B has a lot of water in front of her/him

if A has chocolates, or candy, or whatever, he/she needs to ask if B wouldn't like to have some first, preferrably only give the candy to him and ignore the others...just imagine this at a 20 people table, A sitting at one end, B at the other. apparently, it works..

also during a walk, A might say to B something like "if you are hungry, i have some sandwiches..." or even " i really like this chocolate, but you can have it"

B will be assured of A's intentions and will reply or not in the same tone, no hard feelings or mockery from the others...

other interesting stuff:

if A were to invite B to his/her appartment on their first meeting ever; this is not interpreted as an invitation to sex. it means more like A would like B to know him/ her better, and they believe that one's home can say a lot about oneself.

-more to come soon-